Monday, June 1, 2020

10 Ways to Get the Attention of Your Office Crush

10 Ways to Get the Attention of Your Office Crush Has someone you work with taken your fancy, but you dont know how to get them to notice you? Here are some tips for catching their attention and potentially winning them over! Just keep it in mind that youre going to have to see them every day regardless of the outcome, so you might want to tread carefully! 1) Dress to impress: By: This is it The Apocalypse Youre sure to capture your crushes crush if youre looking your best at work, so take pride in your appearance, dress well (within office regulations of course) and keep yourself well groomed. At very least you can brush your hair in the morning and wear clean tidy clothes. 2) Ask them for their advice or help with work: By: Picturesque and Futureless Asking someone for their advice can be extremely flattering, as it lets them know that you value their opinion. Best not to over-share about personal aspects of your life though if you dont know them that well. They really dont want to hear about your weird medical condition or irrational fear of dolls. Trust me. 3) Acknowledge their achievements: By: What Should We Call Friends If theyve done a good job of something, let them know. It will give them a confidence boost and theyll appreciate you for noticing the effort they have put in. Just dont go OTT about it ok? 4) Make them a cup of tea: By: Reddit The tea-round seems to be a fundamental aspect of office culture, yet is regarded with such dread upon  realisation that its your turn. For this reason your crush will be eternally grateful if you offer to take their round of their hands, or even make  a sneaky cuppa just for them. 5) Water cooler flirtation You just HAPPEN to bump into them at the water cooler for the fifth time that day, what a coincidence! Theres nothing wrong with a bit of innocent flirtation, just keep it subtle. 6) Make them laugh: By: Doctor Katniss at Hogwarts A sense of humour is a very attractive quality and laughter could be the way to your office crushs heart. Get a feel of what his sense of humour is, for example if he likes funny stories tell him yours, just  remember not to over share and avoid being crude, as you are at work after all! 7) Suggest after work drinks: By: I Shouldve Never Graduatedc Organising an outing to the pub after work with a group of colleagues is a great way to spend some extra time with your crush, without appearing too forward. Just take it easy on the booze to avoid any embarrassing situations or love confessions! 8) Buy them their favourite treat: By: Pillars of Sand Whether your crush  loves to crunch down on a tube of Pringles  or indulge in a packet of biscuits at their desk, its sure to get their  attention if you treat them to their favourite snack. Even if it back fires, at least you can make yourself feel better with yummy food. 9) Ask if they want to grab lunch together: By: Tumblr Why not  make good use of your lunch hour and suggest you grab something to eat together? Im not suggesting you wine and dine them, but grabbing a quick sandwich in Costa together cant hurt. 10) Leave them funny messages on post-it notes: By: Quarter to Three This is a  slightly less subtle approach and may want to be left for when you actually know the person well. Lengthy letters to a colleague youve only spoken to a handful of times could put you at risk of  entering stalker territory and thats not exactly going to get you off on the right foot. Image: Shutterstock

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